Tangled Grief Blog

You're Allowed to Move When You're Ready 

You're Allowed to Move When You're Ready 

You're Allowed to Move When You're Ready Julie Spears
Published on: 26/05/2025

I know there’s no formula for moving forward—but I also know what it’s like to wish there was. Sometimes, the next step doesn’t come through action. It comes through permission—to pause, to not know yet, to soften instead of strive. When I feel stuck, I ask myself a few gentle questions that help me listen—not to urgency, but to what’s true in my spirit and body. It’s not about having the answer. It’s about making space to hear where God might be leading next.

Child Loss